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Why You Regress Around Family During the Holidays (And How to Be Gentle With Yourself)
You've been in therapy. You've done the work. You've developed healthier boundaries, better communication skills, and stronger emotional regulation. You've processed trauma, understood your patterns, and genuinely changed how you show up in your life. You feel good about your growth—proud, even. And then you arrive at the house where your family is for the holidays. Within hours, you're: Reverting to childhood defence mechanisms you thought you'd outgrown Feeling emotions wit

Cayla Townes
Nov 24, 2025


The Roads We Didn’t Take: Grieving the Paths We Left Behind
Even when we make choices that feel right, it’s natural to look back and wonder about the life that could have been.

Cayla Townes
Mar 24, 2025


Disenfranchised Grief Series: The Hidden Grief of Chronic Illness
The journey of chronic illness grief is fraught with the loss of our former selves and the mourning of dreams unfulfilled.

Cayla Townes
Aug 13, 2024


Disenfranchised Grief Series: Divorce Grief is Real
For many, the end of a marriage isn’t just a legal dissolution but a bereavement of shared dreams, companionship, and the life once envision

Cayla Townes
Jun 26, 2024


Disenfranchised Grief Series: Why Losing a Pet Can Be So Hard
Understanding why losing a pet feels like waving goodbye to a piece of one’s soul is crucial, as pets are not just animals but cherished...

Cayla Townes
Jun 18, 2024
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