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Experiential Therapy Techniques: Why Feeling Is Healing
Talk therapy can be incredibly powerful—but for many people, insight alone isn’t enough to create real, lasting change.

Cayla Townes
16 hours ago
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Redefining Codependency: From Stigma to Survival Strategy
Codependency has become a buzzword in pop psychology—a shorthand for being “too much,” “too needy,” or “bad at boundaries.” But what if we’ve misunderstood codependency? What if, instead of seeing it as a flaw, we saw it as an adaptation? What if it’s not what’s wrong with you—but what happened to you?

Cayla Townes
May 12
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Perfectionism, Attachment, and the Search for Safety
Perfectionism often gets framed as a personality flaw or an overachiever’s quirk—something to tone down with better work-life balance or stricter time management. But for many, especially those with histories of attachment trauma, perfectionism isn’t just a habit. It’s a survival strategy.

Cayla Townes
May 6
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Why Stress Relief Isn’t Just About Deep Breaths: A Deeper Look for High-Stress Professionals
If you work in a high-pressure field—whether you're a healthcare worker, educator, first responder, therapist, corporate leader, or caregiver—you're no stranger to stress. You probably already have some solid strategies to get through tough days. But even with all that strength and know-how, the stress often doesn’t go away—it just burrows deeper.

Cayla Townes
Apr 28
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When Coping Becomes the Problem: Understanding Your Symptoms with Compassion
You might find yourself panicking after a mildly critical email from a coworker, feeling like a total failure when you make a small mistake, or shutting down emotionally when your partner asks for connection.
These aren’t overreactions—they’re past reactions, still alive in your nervous system.

Cayla Townes
Apr 22
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Understanding the Three Types of Memory in Therapy: Why Talk Therapy and Insight Alone Isn’t Enough
You may know something rationally but still feel stuck emotionally. Why? Because different memories are stored in different ways.

Cayla Townes
Apr 8
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When Thinking Becomes a Shield: Intellectualizing as a Form of Dissociation
Intellectualizing is the habit of staying in the realm of thought as a way to avoid emotions.

Cayla Townes
Mar 31
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The Roads We Didn’t Take: Grieving the Paths We Left Behind
Even when we make choices that feel right, it’s natural to look back and wonder about the life that could have been.

Cayla Townes
Mar 24
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Therapy Isn’t Just for Trauma Survivors: Why Even a "Good" Childhood Can Leave Emotional Gaps
Many people grow up in well-intentioned but emotionally neglectful environments, leaving them with hidden wounds that shape their adult live

Cayla Townes
Mar 17
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Unlocking Lasting Change: Integrating Memory Reconsolidation into Therapy
The Science of Change: Why Memory Reconsolidation Matters For decades, therapists have worked within structured models—Cognitive...

Cayla Townes
Mar 12
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What is CPTSD and How is it Treated?
Complex PTSD is a condition that arises from long-term trauma. This article explores what CPTSD is, its causes, symptoms, and treatment.

Cayla Townes
Feb 10
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Non-Pathologizing Therapy: How is it Different & Why Does it Matter?
Non-pathologizing therapy is shaking things up by focusing on the person, not the problem.

Cayla Townes
Feb 3
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Déjà Vu: Why Childhood Attachment Matters to You as an Adult
Attachment is about feeling safe, loved, and understood when we were little.

Cayla Townes
Jan 21
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Discover the Power of Coherence Therapy: Techniques for Lasting Change
Coherence therapy has proven to be a groundbreaking way to create lasting change.

Cayla Townes
Nov 27, 2024
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Understanding Attachment Trauma: How Therapy Can Aid Your Healing Journey
Facing and dealing with attachment trauma can feel overwhelming. Therapy aimed at helping to understand and change attachment patterns makes

Cayla Townes
Nov 20, 2024
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Memory Reconsolidation in Therapy: The Key to Transformational Change
Memory reconsolidation stands as one of the most important steps forward in therapeutic methods that creates lasting neural changes.

Cayla Townes
Nov 11, 2024
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Talk Therapy vs. Experiential Therapy: Which is Right for You?
Talk therapy and experiential therapy are two popular approaches that have helped countless individuals navigate life's challenges.

Cayla Townes
Sep 11, 2024
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Disenfranchised Grief Series: The Hidden Grief of Chronic Illness
The journey of chronic illness grief is fraught with the loss of our former selves and the mourning of dreams unfulfilled.

Cayla Townes
Aug 13, 2024
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Disenfranchised Grief Series: Divorce Grief is Real
For many, the end of a marriage isn’t just a legal dissolution but a bereavement of shared dreams, companionship, and the life once envision

Cayla Townes
Jun 26, 2024
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Beyond the Silence: Grieving After Suicide
Facing the loss of a loved one to suicide brings a unique and profound pain.

Cayla Townes
May 14, 2024
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