One of the most misunderstood concepts in contemporary therapy culture is boundaries. Everyone talks about them, books are written about them, social media is full of boundary-setting advice. But much of what gets called "boundary-setting" is actually something else entirely—and the confusion causes real problems in relationships.

There are certain books that don't just tell a story—they hold up a mirror. Stephanie Foo's memoir, What My Bones Know: A Memoir of Healing from Complex Trauma, is one of those rare works that manages to be both deeply personal and universally resonant for anyone who has lived with Complex PTSD or attachment trauma. As a therapist, I often hear clients say, "I thought I was the only one who felt this way." This sense of isolation is one of the most painful aspects of CPTSD. F

In North American media and leadership culture, we face a profound representation gap—one that doesn't just shape what we watch or who we vote for, but fundamentally impacts how we understand ourselves and relate to others.